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Curiosity-Led Execution (5-minute read)
Most organizations don’t struggle because they lack solutions—they struggle because they misdiagnose problems. A structured, curiosity-led approach accelerates alignment, reduces rework, and leads to solutions that actually stick.
My Starting Point
I was not a fan of consultants when I first started working with them. Most were arrogant, had limited focus, and viewed problems or goals in isolation. I later learned that the same could be said for salespeople, executives, and more. It had less to do with the role but was more evident when people presented themselves as experts.
Switching to consulting was a tough sell. When I finally accepted a position, I expected to learn proven methodologies from seasoned experts. The lessons learned were not always what I had anticipated.
Many of the senior consultants I worked with had been highly successful early in their careers. But over time, that success calcified into rigid frameworks and default approaches. They weren’t completely wrong—but they weren’t adaptable or as effective as they could have been, either.
It reminded me of the old metaphor: “If the only tool you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.”
At one point, I seriously questioned whether consulting was the right fit for me.
Then I stepped back and looked at the best consultants I had worked with—the ones clients trusted and consistently delivered outcomes. I asked a simple question:
What do they do differently?
The answer wasn’t just expertise. It was curiosity, combined with the desire to deliver a positive experience that delivers tangible positive outcomes.
From Depth to Insight
Early in my career, I went deep—sometimes excessively so.
I read dozens of manuals for a relational database system, cover to cover, just to understand how it worked. Then I spent years, while traveling, going through its source code, trying to understand why it worked the way it did.
That effort paid off. I became recognized as an expert for that product, which opened the door to many challenging and exciting consulting engagements.
But it also revealed a limitation: Depth alone doesn’t scale.
What scaled was the mindset that I developed with it:
- Looking beyond surface-level symptoms.
- Viewing problems from a systemic perspective. Understanding how systems interact (not just how they function).
- Asking how and why decisions were made, not just what decisions were made.
I learned to read between the lines—technically and organizationally. To understand not just systems, but the people and processes behind them.
That context is powerful, but difficult to extract—especially quickly.
The Breakthrough: Structured Curiosity
What ultimately worked wasn’t just knowledge. It was a repeatable approach built on three elements:
- Establish credibility
Demonstrate enough expertise early to build confidence. - Lead with curiosity
Ask thoughtful, relevant questions that show genuine interest—not interrogation. - Close the loop
Articulate your understanding back to stakeholders to confirm, refine, or challenge it.
This creates a feedback loop:
Curiosity → Insight → Validation → Alignment
That loop is where trust—and progress—happens.
A Practical Tactic: The “Columbo Technique”
One of the most effective tools I’ve used is commonly called the Columbo Technique.
The idea is simple: Lower defenses by creating psychological safety—and a sense of control.
Instead of pushing for answers, you:
- Ask informed questions
- Make partial observations
- Then, intentionally leave a gap
Something like:
“I might be missing something, but I’m not fully connecting how X impacts Y…”
This does two things:
- Signals humility (reducing resistance)
- Invites correction (which reveals deeper truth)
People tend to open up—not because they’re forced to, but because they want to contribute. They feel safe because you are focused on understanding the situation and solving the problem, and not pointing fingers or assigning blame.
And once that happens, you get access to what actually matters: the “why” behind the “what.”
Applying This in the Real World
This approach works across consulting, sales, and leadership—but only if applied deliberately.
Here’s how to operationalize it:
1. Start Broad Before Going Deep
Don’t jump to solutions. Map the landscape first:
- Stakeholders
- Systems
- Constraints
- History
2. Use Their Language
Mirror terminology and examples. It builds alignment faster than forcing your own framework.
3. Validate Early and Often
Don’t wait until the end to present conclusions. Share evolving understanding:
- “Here’s what I think I’m seeing…”
- “Does this match your experience?”
- “Can you help me identify reasons why this might not work?”
4. Balance Confidence with Curiosity
Too much confidence shuts people down.
Too much curiosity erodes credibility.
The balance is where influence lives.
5. Optimize for Adoption, Not Perfection
The best solution is the one that gets implemented and sustained—not the one that looks best on paper.
A great example of this is at a large insurance company, where I led a successful 18-month redesign and implementation of a common Risk Management System used across three distinct businesses.
Before I came, they spent two years and several million dollars with a Big 5 Consulting company. The output was several 3” binders filled with specifications, definitions, and design documents. It was amazing, but wasn’t implementable. I have seen that far too often on consulting engagements.
A section in the middle of this post describes what happened with that project.
Make It Repeatable with the CLEAR Framework
This is a simple, reusable model that can help anyone new to a company or role.
The C.L.E.A.R. Framework
C — Credibility
- Establish baseline trust quickly.
- Demonstrate you “speak their language.”
L — Learn
- Map systems, stakeholders, constraints, and history.
- Ask high-quality, layered questions.
E — Expose
- Surface gaps, contradictions, hidden dependencies.
- Use techniques like the “Columbo Method.”
A — Align
- Play back understanding.
- Build shared clarity before prescribing.
R — Recommend
- Deliver solutions optimized for adoption and results, not elegance alone.
Why This Matters
When you lead with curiosity, you move faster—not slower.
You avoid rework.
You uncover hidden constraints early.
You gain stakeholder alignment before decisions are locked in.
And occasionally, you can help solve problems that have existed for years—in a matter of weeks—because you’re solving the right problem.
If this sounds interesting and you would like to discuss it further or seek out assistance, contact me here.
Is Your Sales Team Killing Deals in the First 30 Seconds?
How many times has a stranger called you or filled your inbox with a message that starts with their name and a generic company intro? Did it make you want to pay attention, or did you immediately hit “delete”?
For executives overseeing high-stakes enterprise sales, this isn’t just an annoyance—it’s a performance barrier. If your team is stuck in a “Me and We” mentality, they are burning valuable leads before discovery even begins.
The Problem: You Can’t Win if You Don’t Get to Play
Most sales and marketing teams default to talking about themselves. They lead with their history and their product features. In enterprise sales, this is a fatal error.
Unless you are a dominant market leader, your prospects don’t care who you are or where you work; they care what you can do for them. Every second spent on your “About Us” slide is a second lost in identifying the prospect’s pain points.
The Cost of Misaligned Messaging
When your team uses “me-focused” messaging, the consequences are immediate:
· Low Engagement: Cold calls and emails are ignored because they lack immediate relevance.
· Stalled Demos: Prospects tune out during the “logo slide,” reducing the probability of real engagement and follow-on from this point on.
· Failed Discovery: Without quickly developing rapport and a focus on the prospect’s specific business and terminology, your team will never uncover the deep-seated issues required to close a complex deal.
The Solution: Use a “Prospect-First” Framework
To fix your pipeline performance, your team needs to pivot to a PIE-based approach that leverages your perspectives, insights, and expertise to prioritize the prospect’s desired outcomes. Help them visualize that better outcome, using their terminology and scenarios, with your solution.
1. Establish Immediate Rapport
Before the call, find a “hook”—a shared hobby, a mutual connection, or a specific business challenge they’ve mentioned in forums or job postings. Connection builds the rapport necessary for a successful discovery.
2. Lead with PIE (Perspective, Insight, Experience)
Instead of introducing your company, lead with the problems you solve. Help them answer the “why you?” question by demonstrating expertise and a proven solution.
· The Shift: Instead of saying “We are the leading Kubernetes platform,” try: “About half of the executives I meet are concerned about unplanned outages, spiraling costs, and security exposure. Have these been concerns for you?”
· The Result: This adds instant credibility without making the conversation about you. It forces the prospect to engage with their own problems if they are truly interested in finding a solution. And if not, you both agree that there is no fit at this time and move on.
3. Skip the Ego, Show the Success
In your next demo, skip the logo page and the multiple feature pages. Move directly to a relevant customer case study from a similar industry. Discuss their specific issues and the measurable outcomes that must be achieved. This makes your solution relatable and positions your team as experts who can help, rather than just another vendor. Build rapport and earn that next meeting.
Audit your team’s outreach today. Are they leading with “We” or with “You”? If your messaging needs a strategic overhaul to better reach your future customers, contact me here. Let’s turn your sales messaging into a competitive advantage.
How is your team changing its approach to meet today’s better-informed yet more skeptical enterprise buyers? Let me know in the comments below.
What is Customer Success?
In most companies, it is a department or a team. I would argue that it should be foundational in a company’s culture. Companies need to focus on providing products and services that solve critical business problems for their clientele. Failing to do that will ultimately lead to the death of products and ultimately corporate decline.
In a quarterly executive meeting a decade or so ago, the head of the Support organization stated this team was the most important. The head of Engineering then stated that her team was the most important. I chimed in and stated, “Without Sales, nothing happens, but ultimately, if all teams are not focused on the same objective, like a tripod, then all teams will ultimately fail.” Our CEO agreed with me, and that was the end of the discussion.
You could also argue that Marketing and Services should be included, and I would agree, since it goes back to all teams being focused on a singular, overarching goal.
In a previous post about creating Customers for Life, I wrote about a tactical implementation to address customer churn, which is the byproduct of failure in one or more areas. This was a wakeup call for me, as we were very focused on the success of our largest accounts and most productive channel partners – totaling 70% of our revenue, but we took the other “less valuable” accounts for granted. The lesson learned was that 30% of $62M is a large number, and by applying the same techniques to those accounts, we increased organic growth while minimizing churn.
Why Customer Success Teams Struggle
- Lack of Ownership: They do not own the accounts and often lack the motivation and accountability for the health and success of each customer.
- Stay Reactive: They are reactive rather than proactive advocates for customers.
- Lack of Resources: They are spread too thin and lack the capacity to actively engage with all but a few customers.
- Enter Too Late: They are not introduced early in the sales process, which is a great way to demonstrate commitment to the prospect’s success if they select you as a vendor.
- Stay Low in the Org Chart: They do not develop relationships beyond a small operational team, limiting executive visibility and expansion potential.
- Ad Hoc in Nature: They lack formal processes, including detailed documentation, that help ensure consistency and continuity over time.
How to Position Your Team for the Win
- SWOT: Review your strengths and weaknesses. Why do companies buy from you? (or, what are you really selling?) What are you known for? What do people like and appreciate? Where do you fall short? (opportunities for others) Accentuate the positive and focus on improvements where needed.
- We often received feedback from customers that when they called our support team, their problem was often solved on the initial call. With other vendors, it often required going through 2-3 people to get to someone knowledgeable who could help. We promoted this when selling and reinforced the importance of maintaining this positive image to our internal teams.
- We also received feedback that some of our technical features were lagging behind the competition, so my team and I helped identify the most critical features, then worked with Engineering to prioritize them and focus on bringing in new customers who needed them. It was a win-win.
- Be Proactive: It is often possible to anticipate problems or make improvements based on your understanding of the customer and their history. Being part of the solution means that you don’t wait for the next problem to engage.
- When I had my consulting company, we provided managed services for several large companies. We had proprietary monitoring tools that would report conditions that often led to outages if unchecked. We would address the issue and inform the customer once it was resolved. Our monthly summary report listed the likely outages avoided, the average duration of similar outages, and the cost avoided (based on the hourly cost of downtime). Key people saw our value at least monthly, so when it came time to renew our service, the process was fast and painless.
- Become the Internal Liaison: The customer success team should serve as the main conduit for information. Introduce your Services or Engineering teams to the customer early. This doesn’t just solve problems; it uncovers new opportunities to provide value (and sell additional services) that position the customer for even greater success. Engagement and a sense of partnership go a long way.
- I will often introduce the Services team when problems or needs arise. Their expertise and insights can be very valuable, often leading to services that position the customer for even greater success.
- Go Above and Beyond: People remember that. Teams begin to rely on you. And Executives begin to see your company and products as critical to their success. This creates long-term value for your company.
- Focus on the Future: Ask your customers, “How can we help with your upcoming initiatives and projects?” This is a great way to learn what they will be working on, to show your interest in their success, and to identify how your company and products can help them achieve it.
These are things that have been very successful for me when I was leading two large global regions, when I was a top Account Executive at a company with a small customer success team, and as a Consultant. I set expectations, led by example, and they began doing much more of what I expected from the customer success team. We started seeing improvements in the first 30 days.
While leadership doesn’t have to come from designated leaders, cultural changes usually require the commitment, involvement, and support of the organization’s top executives. Every person has the potential to make a positive impact on a company’s direction and success.
When the customer wins and views you as a key partner, you don’t have to worry about churn.
Leading Next-Generation Sales Teams: The Mandate for Predictable Revenue
The sales landscape has fundamentally shifted. I keep reading posts and stories about AI replacing sales teams, and it may be for more commodity-type sales, but it will be some time before it replaces Enterprise sales teams. Building relationships and trust is the foundation for an executive to take a risk on your product, especially when it is critical to their success. AI is currently not at that level, and with behavior changing with every key release, building trust with an AI will be challenging for many years to come. But today, AI can be a powerful enablement tool for your team when leveraged correctly.
Your prospects no longer need salespeople for information; they need us for Insight. They have done their research. They expect their time to be an investment, not a discovery exercise. Does your presence and knowledge project confidence and inspire trust? Does the prospect view you as someone interested in helping their business, or just someone trying to close a deal? Impress them, and you could earn the opportunity to dig deeper. Disappoint them, and good luck trying to recover.
Two years ago, I was selling to a Fortune 100 Financial Services company. I understood their business needs, which we easily achieved. We demonstrated that we could take a key manual process that typically took 7 weeks to complete, automate it and maintain full compliance, and complete the task within 10 minutes. The SVP told me his priorities for selecting any new vendor were: 1 – Company Stability; 2 – Relationship with the Vendor; 3 – Product Quality; 4 – Product Value to their business; and 5 – Total Solution cost. Prior to selling their IP, the company fired the sales team, and the remaining execs went in and offered the deal at an even greater discount. It never sold because the executive team did not understand what was important to this buyer. The company had a high-level relationship with the stakeholders, but lacked the trust and credibility that I had built over several months. This is one of the main reasons why I believe AI won’t take over Enterprise Sales anytime soon.
So, how do you get it right?
The question for every CRO or VP of Sales isn’t whether their team is busy, but whether their activity is revenue-focused and leads to predictable and scalable results. There is much money to be made by everyone, but following the same old tired formulas seldom works.
For leaders aiming to build next-generation teams that deliver zero surprises in the forecast, the approach must be recalibrated around three core pillars: Strategic Preparation, High-Agency Coaching, and Outcome Focused Messaging (“context.”) It is much more than cold calling for two hours a day or having 5-10 meetings per week. Things like that are important, but they are just activities if you are not targeting the right companies and people, or if your team blows it once you have found those people. This will be a significant cultural shift for many companies.
Strategic Preparation: From “Discovery” to “Insight”
When a prospect books a meeting, they are giving us one of their most precious assets: time. If we treat that time as a standard discovery call, we set negative expectations, which signals the lack of perspective (the ‘P’ in PIE) and perceived value. This isn’t theory—it’s the PIE framework (Perspective, Insight, Experience) I’ve used to sell large deals, turn around at-risk customers, and scale teams for many years.
The C-Suite Mandate: Accelerate deal velocity by focusing on specific quantifiable impact for your prospects, and increase win rates by targeting identifiable business pain.
- Come with an Understanding of their Market, Changes, and Competition. Before the first call, we must demonstrate that we’ve already invested time in understanding their operational constraints, their competitive pressures, and their budget priorities. The goal is to move the conversation immediately from the tired, “What keeps you up at night?” to “We have seen [problem] with companies in your industry. Is that something you have experienced or have concerns about?”
- Long Discovery Calls or Presentations Typically Won’t Work. Customers are fatigued by generic questions. Every interaction must be purpose-driven and meaningful. If the call runs longer than planned, it must be because the conversation has become mutually valuable, not because we were ill-prepared and just keep talking.
- Discussions Must Be Targeted to the Problems They Are Most Likely Experiencing. This is where we leverage Insight (the ‘I’ in PIE). Use your background and AI to hypothesize the top three pain points before you dial. Our role is to validate these points, quantify the impact, and then introduce a Shared Vision of Success (our solution) anchored by measurable business outcomes.
Player-Coach: Enhancing Team Capabilities, Not Just Motivating Activity
If you are a sales leader who only focuses on closing your team’s most challenging deals, you are creating a dependency, not a capability. A Player-Coach must be accountable for the team’s numbers and its health.
The C-Suite Mandate: Drive organic growth by building repeatable processes and cultivating high-agency talent.
- Not a One Size Fits All Proposition. True coaching is not a template. It requires a methodical but human approach to diagnostics. That takes time, effort, and a genuine desire to help people grow.
- Identify Skills Gaps and Tailor Efforts. Test skills, identify gaps, and then create targeted efforts around building skills that address someone’s specific deficiencies. This personalized attention is how we build the high-performance culture and accountability required to sustain long-term success.
- Leverage the Team – Role Playing and Team Reviews. We must create a culture where knowledge sharing and feedback loops are the norm. Leverage team reviews and structured role-playing to sharpen execution. This is how we transform luck into a predictable process.
Give teams the latitude to adjust their messaging and test approaches. Adapt messaging to business trends, changes in the competitive landscape, and changing terminology. Then, have your team share their experiences and findings (good and bad) with the team to review, provide feedback, and refine. Structured agility helps your team maintain its competitive edge.
The Leadership Mandate: Context Over Content
We are past the hype cycle of AI. The C-Suite doesn’t care about the tool; they care about the ROI and the risk of poor execution. As leaders, we cannot just hand our teams a login and say, “Go use AI.” That’s a recipe for chaos and a quick erosion of professional credibility. We must lead by example.
We need to teach our teams that AI generates content, but humans generate context.
- Do use AI to deepen your understanding of the prospect’s industry so you can become a true consultant. Use the technology to gain understanding and market intelligence and tie it to your Experience (the ‘E’ in PIE) as preparation before any call.
- Don’t use AI to automate a thousand bad emails. Mass communication is cheap; individualized insight is priceless.
- Do use AI to research the one hundred prospects that actually matter. Focused efforts yield significantly better results.
- Don’t use AI to fake expertise. This leads to the quick death of credibility, as any good consultant will tell you.
The “Million Dollar Deal“ isn’t won by a bot. It’s won by a human who understands the nuances of the prospect’s business, builds trust, and navigates the internal structure and politics. AI is simply the tool that clears the path so you can do that work faster and with better data. AI is leverage, not a crutch.
Call to Action: Are You Building a Team or a Capability?
The next-generation sales leader understands that customer success is at the heart of everything we do. We win when they succeed. Your most valuable asset isn’t your pipeline—it’s the predictable capability of the individuals on your team. Consistently doing the right things is critical to success.
The challenge for every business leader today is this: Are you enabling your teams to sell like consultants, or are you still measuring them (and driving their behavior) on activity-based metrics? Focus on building intelligent and creative teams that deliver consistent results with zero surprises. It doesn’t happen overnight, but it is an investment in your future success.
Let’s discuss how we can implement the PIE framework and position your team to deliver scalable, organic growth in your organization.
Lessons Learned from GTM Consulting
For the past two years, I have performed part-time, contract go-to-market consulting. My wife had a surgery that had gone wrong 18 months ago, so I needed something that would allow me to take care of her, stay sharp, earn money, and help companies grow.
Most of the work was with small to midsize companies, but the problems and needs mirrored what I have encountered at larger companies. The main difference is that large companies tend to look to software to address problems. In contrast, smaller companies lack the budget for what they view as an unproven solution that increases complexity.
Here are my Top 5 findings:
- GTM plans are often developed at the highest levels, often in isolation, without market testing and validation.
- Sales teams are pitted against one another, rather than working together to help everyone achieve more (i.e., “A rising tide lifts all boats.”)
- Sales teams are focused on selling features rather than solving business problems.
- CRMs are not consistently used and often reflect idealized fiction rather than reality.
- Sales management and teams are not leveraging AI to help focus their efforts.
Here are the related Lessons Learned:
- Identifying common business problems and describing how your product or service solves them should be the foundation of the plan. Perform market analysis. How do companies describe those problems? Their terminology, often found in job ads, can help create effective messaging that resonates. Work to become the natural fit for what your prospects are seeking.
- Individual contributors get paid to win, but sales management needs to create incentives for collaborative efforts that lead to wins.
- For one company, I convinced them to implement a 2% SPIV (like a SPIFF, but team-focused) for every team member who actively contributed to team improvement. SPIV payments were quarterly, and there was a running total so the team could see the fund growth. Initial indications of a positive impact are good.
- Another benefit of collaboration is that it helps teams focus on approaches that work due to ongoing testing and refinement. Collaboration also helps teams focus on a more accurate ICP (ideal customer profile). Sales management can then feed their findings back to Marketing to improve and tailor their efforts.
- Selling is a byproduct of problem-solving. You can’t solve problems if you don’t know what they are. Every interaction with a prospect should focus on gathering information, building trust and relationships, and leveraging prior interactions to demonstrate that your solution will solve their problem and ease their pain.
- CRMs often either lack information or are full of wishful thinking. They focus on activities, and not progress and next steps. Using MEDDIC/MEDPICC as a foundation for reporting is a much better start. Sales managers need to independently validate the information to ensure their teams are being upfront and honest. Trust, coaching, and collaboration work together for the win.
- AI is not a panacea, but it is very effective for research, market validation, prospecting, and meeting preparation. Going in prepared builds respect and credibility, saves time, and lets you quickly qualify prospects in or out. There may be a nurturing program for some of the prospects qualified out for immediate deals, but your time is valuable, and you will go hungry chasing deals you can’t close.
So, what are your thoughts? Have you seen some of these problems yourself? How did you handle them? Let me know in the comments below.
And if you are looking for a Consultant to help your business grow or someone who can add immediate value to your team, then contact me.
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